Here's the story: my sister went for a walk in the middle of December when it was pouring rain because, apparently, her friend needed to talk to her about something; an "emergency" she called it. She didn't tell my mom (who was away Christmas shopping) and she told me she'd be back in a half hour. I was fine with that. Forty or so minutes later, I text her to come home. She begs for 20 more minutes. I say 10. She agrees to start home in 10 minutes. Ten minutes go by, I call her twice with no answer. Fifteen minutes go by, I call my mom and tell her she's off taking a walk and not answering my calls. My mom calls her; no answer. My mom calls the friend she told me she was apparently going to see, and SHE says she hadn't seen or heard from my sister. My sister gets home ten minutes later, drenched (but not as much as she should be if she were walking), and I want to murder her. My mom gets home, confronts her about it, and she gets her phone taken away. I feel no shame in sabotaging her anymore, so I look through her phone. All of her recent texts and calls (incoming and outgoing) have been deleted.
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Gabby's sister's status ...realizing i do not, CANNOT have a life without my phone..
Sister's Friend I wouldnt have a life either
Gabby's sister Me That's sad. You should've been more mature about it.
[The reason for this comment comes from that fact that my sister told me on more than one occasion (including once when watching South Park) that I needed to "grow up." Then she said I wasn't "mature" because I argued against renting a scary movie because I really can't deal with horror.]
Sister's friend Shut up Gabby, no one cares.
Gabby And yet you care enough to tell me no one cares. Hm.
Sister's friend I care enough to comment on my best friends status when her sister is being a jerk and taunting her about her phone when its pretty much your fault she got it taken away for a pretty stupid reason.
Me Oh, so it's my fault that I was concerned she was out walking in the freezing rain for nearly 2 hours for a reason she wouldn't tell me about? You're both stupid. Don't even argue with me.
Sister's friend You might think that she just wanted to be alone for a little while, take a break and just think about things and not have to deal with babysitting and you for just a little bit. Hm.
Me Then she could've told me that. She didn't have to walk out and not answer her phone or not come home when she said she would. Is that really so much to ask? I didn't expect an update every 5 minutes. Just some common sense and courtesy. Or maybe she could've actually worn a coat in the December rainy weather instead of a thin hoodie. I think you both forget how old you are. You're 15 years old. You're not adults. You're not always right. You're not invincible, and you can't do anything you want. And let me say this: it was YOU that got her in trouble, not me. So shove that up your ass.
Sister's friend It's not your responsibility to know were she is every five seconds, its not your responsibility to make sure she is wearing the proper clothing, that is the responsibility of your mother, not you. And I know all those things, but your not an adult either, your far from that, if you were a mature adult your wouldn't be arguing with a 14 teen year ... See Moreold. Lastly I didn't get her trouble, I only told your mom I didn't know were she was, I didn't rat her out or anything for going on a walk, like you did. When you grow up and stop arguing with children that you supposedly know better then you can tell me to shove it up my ass, but for now I would keep your mouth shut.
Me Oh please. First of all, a grammar lesson. Your = possessive. You're = you are. Use them correctly.
Secondly, it was my responsibility. Don't you have younger siblings? Don't you babysit? If you don't, then you still know that when Mom's gone, the oldest is in charge. It was no different. And am I just not supposed to care about my sister at all? Sure, we're not on the best terms, but I don't want her to get pneumonia. And Kasey didn't even CALL my mother. My mom didn't know about the walk until I told her. So it was my responsibility because I was the only one who knew. I passed it over to my mom, though, when I called her. I made it her responsibility. And that's why Kasey has no phone.
And, uh, 18 is technically the age when you're considered an adult. If you can be tried in court as an adult, you're an adult.
I can argue with whomever I want. I may be arguing with an immature 14-year-old, but at least I know I'll win. I'm mature enough to pick my fights. And you call yourself a child; that's an interesting paradox. It's like you're saying "You can't boss me around! You're not an adult!" and then "I can do whatever I want!" Are you a child or an adult? If you can't find a compromise, then shut up.
Her going on a walk wasn't a secret. It was because she tried to make it seem like that is why she got in trouble. Seriously, if you were a parent, would YOU approve of your 14-year-old daughter walking ALONE in the freezing cold rain, not knowing where they're going, who they're seeing; especially when the person they said they WOULD be seeing told you that she hadn't seen her? Yeah.
Sister's friend Grammar lesson: I'm not writing a paper, so shove it, you are not my literature teacher.
Then how come Kasey is changing the diapers, while you treat her like your slave and sit around on your butt playing video games. And the only thing you have better to do is keep an eagle eye on your little sister because you have nothing better to do with your life.
Age is but a number, the law may say your 18 but that doesn't make you one. Being able to be responsible for yourself does, which you sure are not. Your mother pays your bills and drives you around. Doesn't sound very mature to me. Hm. ... See More
I'm not saying I'm a child, and I'm not saying I'm an adult. I know my rules, but I'm mature to enough to make most own decisions. When you start paying your own bills and learn how to drive then maybe I'll shut up.
Last time I checked you weren't a parent. You trying to control everything she does, does not make you her mother. And when she wants some alone time and you won't let her have it, that is not responsibility. Just because your her older sister and are supposed to be watching over her while your mother is gone doesn't mean you have to keep a hawks eye on her all the time.
Me Fine. Next time I'll just let her get kidnapped, raped, left on the side of the road and die of hypothermia.
Paying bills and driving do not constitute adulthood. And thank god I don't have kids. But that doesn't constitute adulthood either. It's accepting responsibility. I accepted that I had to make sure she didn't do something stupid. I risked having this stupid argument with you. I risked having her hate me more than she already does. But you know what? I did the right thing. And no matter what you say, you won't convince me otherwise. I don't feel one ounce of remorse for what I did.
And you not accepting the fact that you are wrong is what makes you childish. You know what she did was wrong. She broke the rules. She got punished for it. It's how the world works. And just because you're her best friend doesn't mean that you have to endorse everything she does. My friends do stupid things all the time. And I tell them that.
I in no way try to control what she does. Nor would I want to. I hardly want to have anything to do with her. Our dislike is mutual and she knows why. So this "eagle/hawk eye" you speak of does not exist. It never existed. It never will. I may not like her, but I don't want to see her crash and burn. I like to consider myself a decent person for this.
Hahahahahaha slave. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
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To be continued, I'm sure. And the movie just got over. My sister is going to soon see this hahahaha.